Long Distance Love – online relationships and romance

The question “Whether love at a distance exist” the majority of people, will answer “Yes, sometimes it happens. And someone will tell you that it is an illusion and self-belief...” When you love the person, you feel the necessity to be beside him, to see him, to live one destiny with him, in fact nobody but him made you feel happy… And what if the person you love leaves?

Is it necessary to keep in touch or is it better to break off at once not to make it more hurtful later? In fact they say: « Love - ruins distance, the distance ruins love! Separation weakens shallow passion and strengthens great one, the same as the wind blows out the candles and blows a flame... ". To love at a distance... How difficult it is! What can be worse, than to love being in separation?

And at the same time, it is so fine, that somewhere there is a person who waits and loves. But is everything so cloudless in this love? It is quite possible, that we only have created an illusion of love, not to feel lonely. In fact the destiny has given you chance to be together. It has given you an opportunity to meet one another in this chaos of life to understand and grow fond of each other and not to be separated. But circumstances are above us: study, work, business trips, and service in army – everything carries terrible separation, doubts, and hysterics.

How to overcome this crisis of love, without losing precious love? It is not a secret that this is especially painful for men, possibly because of jealousy, proprietary instincts or other. Therefore, they are frequently initiators of break, probably they are afraid to be rejected, thrown. Men often say that constant sex is necessary for him, and he can’t have incidentally. We wonder whether it is love, if it has not passed test by time. One can tell this about passion not love...  Actually passion really passes, but it does not mean, that love also leaves. Love is much deeper. You shouldn’t wait for such man, he is not worth a single tear of yours if he hasn’t passed test of separation. But if your beloved continuously sends you messages, calls you and says, that nothing has changed since you left - he loves you.

If  before departure your beloved  repeated, that he would  wait for you all his life, nothing can be more firm than this word, it is necessary simply to wait, and to observe faithfulness, love is impossible without it, otherwise  it simply turns in « casual meetings when two feel good ». In the distance beloved people are capable to understand their feelings. Thus a  man is capable to distinguish flirtation and serious feelings, game from love, the truth from lie. Only that person can stand love at a distance who is capable to make the loving woman happy... Who is capable to love and be oneself, love, without hurting beloved person.

And woman’s love when beloved person is  not nearby , when there is no opportunity constantly to feel a sincere loving look, tenderness of hands, lips, - turns into torture. « Now we are far from each other. But, in fact it is not much of a trouble, isn’t it?... As you will be inside me all the time! In my mind, in my heart and in my soul! I shall recollect you so frequently that it will turn out - as if we did not depart… », this is how the female soul cries and waits … At the same time she feels whether he loves her. Hopes and hysterics expectations of meetings these are difficulties in the life of a loving woman. It is easy to understand, that when love is mutual, it is such a torture for people in love - the compelled separation.

Communicating from far away,  you should be open and fair to each other. Do not forget about each other when you are not together. Remain devoted to each other in spite of the fact that you are far apart. During the time while you are not together, you will face a lot of problems which you will overcome in the future together, but now you are passing the most difficult test - love at a distance.